Fate

Everything happens for a reason, or so I'd like to think. Everything that happens doesn't have to though. It's all depends on the "player of the game". We're all dealt cards that predetermine how our lives will come to be, but nothing is ever set in stone. There's always a wild card that creates sponatenity, change, etc, etc. There's always the special wild card that makes even the shittiest of dealt cards easier to live with. That means there's no such thing as never getting what you deserve, want, desire, need, or any of the like.

A lot of people worldwide are dealt unfair "hands" throughout life. What seperates the successes from the failures are the mindsets. It takes passion and determination to get out of bed (or off the ground or floor in more dire situations) and say "this isn't the life I deserve. I want more and I'll have more". Actually saying that and believing it is even harder to do, but it's worth the sacrifice, worth all the suffering, pain, and agony to say that you've been through the worse of your life and you made something of yourself. It's never ok to give up on yourself. It's never ok to say "this is what my life is and I'm fucked", it's never ok to not believe.

As humans, we all need dreams to get us by. They bestow hopes of a better tomorrow upon us and gives us strength to get up and walk another day. There's also a little of the aforemention confidence and determination thrown in. Sadly, as easy as it is to just dream, it's even easier to lose sight of them as well. When things go bad, everything seems to be in disarray. We just need to remember what got us this far in life, why we're important to others, what our purpose is, and what we want to attain in life. That's never predetermined. It's never fate. You're just failing to use your wild card when you think of things that way.

Things can change if you keep trying. Keep pushing for what you want no matter how bad it hurts. When you attain it, it'll be worth it. The key to "cheating" life is knowing how to keep yourself gathered and what you're capable of. All of us can make some sort of change to the entire world once we're born into this world. We just all don't know how to harness that power...

Believe in yourself and strive for more. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve by any means. If your dream was to be an orthopedist, shoot for it. If you want to be an astronaught, shoot for the fucking stars. (As a matter of fact, one of the Backstreet Boys is trying to be an astronaught now. It may have been one of the NSync guys, but they're all the same to me. He came close to leaving on a rocket before too. Anyway, the point is .. just make it happen. It's good to be a dreamer, but great to be an acheiver).

Don't trust in fate, instead trust in faith. Have faith in yourself, faith in your god/religion, faith in your country, faith in your life, faith is whatever will get you to the level you want to be at in life. It's time to step up to the place. What are you gonna do?